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Helping your child understand words (receptive language)

Receptive language is your ability to understand words and language.

Children with receptive language difficulties can find it hard to:

  • learn new words
  • follow instructions
  • understand questions
  • listen to and follow stories
  • process and remember spoken information

Help your child to understand

There are things you can do to help improve your child’s receptive language skills.

Do

  • get your child's full attention before you give them an instruction or information

  • speak in simple language

  • break information and instructions down into 1 step at a time

  • use visuals to support what you say - for example, gestures, objects, pictures or writing

  • give your child time to process and respond to what you say

  • check your child’s understanding of what you said and repeat or rephrase it, if necessary.

  • encourage your child to ask you to repeat or clarify what you said, if necessary

  • tell your child what to say if they need clarification - for example, “could you say that again” and “what do you mean”

  • encourage your child to repeat information back to themselves to help them remember it

Useful resources

Helping my child to talk: Story-time magic (video)

Learning to talk (video series)

Get support

Ask a speech and language therapist (SLT) for advice on supporting your child’s receptive language skills.

Information:

Content adapted from information provided by Enable ireland.

Page last reviewed: 14 November 2025
Next review due: 14 November 2028