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Speaking fluency: how to support your child

Stammering or dysfluency is a breakdown in the flow of speech.

If your child stammers or has dysfluency, they may:

  • repeat certain sounds or whole words
  • stretch out sounds
  • get stuck on sounds
  • have facial tension, extra body movements or disrupted breathing
  • avoid some words or situations

About 1 in 20 children between ages 2 and 7 experience something like stammering.

Many children who start to stammer will speak with fluency within a few months. But others might need some extra help.

How you can help with fluency

There are things you can do to help support your child’s fluency.

Do

  • have 5 minutes of one-to-one time with your child each day to talk or play, in a calm, relaxed setting

  • talk slower than you normally would and use short, simple sentences.

  • show your child you are listening

  • keep natural eye contact if your child is stammering

  • give your child extra time to talk without interruption and avoid finishing off their sentences for them

  • make sure everyone gets a turn to talk during family conversations

  • praise your child for the things they are doing well in communication

Don't

  • do not tell your child to slow down or take a deep breath if they are stammering

  • do not ask your child too many questions - let them answer 1 at a time and have normal conversation between questions

Get support

If your child is stammering, ask your speech and language therapist for further advice.

Useful resources

Top tips for helping a child who stammers (video)

Websites

actionforstammeringchildren.org

stamma.org

Information:

This content was adapted from information provided by Enable Ireland.

Page last reviewed: 14 November 2025
Next review due: 14 November 2028